Kinky or not kinky?

As it been said in previous blog, the sexuality is often a taboo subject in our society. What is even more taboo, is the different sexual activities and practices that exists.

Some of those practices might be outright frightening, particularly those that never experienced it or had a bad experience. However, most of it is entirely psychological, in fact I believe that a good share of the pain and pleasure come directly from the psychological side.

Today I will talk about BDSM, which usually stand for: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism. Pretty much everyone will experiment one form or another of BDSM during their life. BDSM cover a wide amount of activities, which include some forms of dominance, submission, discipline, punishment, bondage, sexual role-playing, sexual fetishism, sadomasochism and power exchange.

It’s very important to note that BDSM should not and is not a form of sexual abuse. The relationships and practices should always be exercised under the philosophy of safe, sane and consensual. I do think that some aspects of it can not only spice a relationship but improve the sensation feel between the two partners.

However, this is not something that is needed to enjoy sexual intercourse, nor should it be imposed to someone or rushed. At the end, we each have our own kink and I think that it’s very important to listen and respect your partner. So be kinky, and more importantly, have fun!