Love Expection

There is so many things that I would like to share with my loved one and yet it feel like the time is moving on so fast. Each moment is unique and we are trying to make them each exceptional for they might stay craved in our memory for a very long time.

Sadly, things don’t always go as planned; we each got our up and down from time to time. Some times we wonder what is wrong…perhaps it’s us? However, most of the time it’s an influence from an outside source, something barely visible to the human eyes but that take a lot of space in our subconscious mind. Unfortunately, until we completely defeat this demon, we will have a hard time to focus on thing that we really hold dear.

Those demons will even blind you, using sadness, rage and anger in order to forget what you cherish and love. That is why that I think about life as a giant virtual game. If I cannot gain pleasure from something, I usually “suppress” or forget about it and move on to something else. Because of this, I am rarely serious or angry at anything.

Today I seen about how important is love expectation from your partner. I think it’s important enough to add it to the three relation aspects I named earlier in my blog: Physical, psychological and shared interest. No relations are perfect, and no matter what, we will have to sacrifice some thing in order to gain something else.

Love is often about sacrifice, a gain for a pain. The true question is, are you both willing to go through those sacrifices in order to love each others? Will the gain excess the pain in the end? And more importantly, would you gain more from being alone or with someone else? Those kinds of questions, when resolved, are what will keep or break lover’s relationship.

Also, keep in mind that nothing is perfect, you will meet deception from time to time even with an ideal partner and some situations will bring you pain and sadness no matter your choice.